The devaluation of father and the death of God are the same thing. Or, at least, they comfort each other. They share an elective affinity.
I’m not arguing causality here, in either direction. I don’t know that devaluing father causes the ideology of God’s death. Nor do I know that atheism leads to a feeling that dads are optional. I suspect neither relation is direct. I suspect both of these arise out of a third thing, which seeks to destroy all father symbols, concrete and invisible.
Is it any more complicated than a “no” to father’s rules? Milton’s Satan, the famous sympathetic figure at the fountainhead of rebellion for its own value, just prefers to rule in hell than serve in heaven. And we’re still intended to think (I think) with Milton that this is a stupid choice, but the stupidity is only clear when the joys of friendship with the father are felt, so that the loss of choosing autonomy can be weighed. And that loss Milton fails to show, rather than tell, for all his genius. Ever since, “no” to father’s rules has not meant “no” to fathers eventual friendship, which is the only reason for the rules.
All this has been forgotten by the race.